The Morbidly Obese Perplex Me

I'm probably going to be treading on dangerous ground here. Verbalizing my opinion about those who are obese.

Obesity is fresh on my mind due to going to the Super Bowl Buffet yesterday for lunch. Sitting right by me were two totally morbidly obese women. It was not difficult to see why they were obese. First off, going to a buffet? Not a smart choice. Second bad choice? The stuff those two put on their plates and in their mouths. Mounds of everything deep-fried. And they did not miss a single item from the dessert area.

From my personal up close observations of obese people they all seem to have some things in common. Emotional issues beyond the eating disorder is one. Low self-esteem is another. Self-indulgence in areas beyond food is another. A lack of self-discipline in other parts of their lives is another. As in they are usually slobs. Yes, I know that's harsh, but, it's the sad truth.

When you get so fat that you have trouble putting shoes on, trouble getting up from a sitting position, trouble breathing, your doctor having told you that you are morbidly obese, how and why do you make the decision to put more bad stuff in your mouth? What makes you reach for that cookie or donut or ice cream or fudge? I can't understand this type of out of control self-indulgence. Is it a mental illness?

Now, I've never been what one would think of as fat. I have weighed more than I do now. As in I think at my heaviest I was somewhere in the 220's zone. That would have been when I lived in Washington. Of course, I thought it was all muscle. It wasn't.

Now I weigh in the 160's zone. So, I know what it's like to lose weight. It isn't that hard to do. It makes a huge difference in how you feel to be leaned out. I've always hated flying. I did not realize that being skinnier would make such a difference til I flew north in July and back in August. Best flights ever. Never felt uncomfortable and squeezed in.

When a person gets to the point of morbid obesity they are so fat that their body needs way more calories than does a normal sized person just to maintain. As in, to support all that weight a person who is 300 or 400 pounds over their ideal weight probably needs 5 or 6 thousand daily calories just to stay even. If the fat person ate a normal calorie load they'd lose a pound or more a day. Particularly if they are still able to be somewhat mobile.

I've known a couple of surgeons who talked about what it's like to operate on smokers and fat people. With the smokers as soon as you cut them open you can smell the smoke. With fat people it makes operating way more difficult due to the fat making everything greasy and slippery.

Okay, I'm done talking about obesity for now. Now, next time you want a cookie reach for a carrot instead.

Inexcusable: Taking Advantage of Old People

How does someone become such a lowlife human being that they could rationalize taking advantage of old people like this guy in my former state of Washington did? Appalling......

LONGVIEW -- At his sentencing hearing, Tom Sigea described himself as a simple man inept at finances. But investigators say Sigea squandered his elderly parents' money.

Judge Jill Johanson sentenced Sigea on Thursday in Cowlitz County Superior Court to 28 months in prison on four counts of first-degree theft. Sigea had earlier entered a modified guilty plea, in which he did not admit guilt but acknowledged he likely would be convicted if the case went to trial.

Sigea lived with his parents -- who were in their 80s and suffering from dementia-- for three years in their $400,000 Kalama home. Investigators say he lived well while his parents, who had $1 million in assets, lived downstairs in filth and poverty.

The 53-year-old had full power of attorney over his parents' affairs after he persuaded his brother to give up his share of that privilege.

Sigea's mother Lila Sigea has died. His father Albert now lives with a grandson in California. Deputy Prosecutor James Smith told the judge that Albert Sigea wanted his son to receive a severe penalty.

Sarah Flohr, the Cowlitz Bank trust officer handling the Sigea estate, says the stolen cash, legal costs and other expenses amount to about $850,000.

Cancel Your Citibank Credit Card Before You Die!

Alma, the Songbird of the South, sent me this and it seems too ridiculous to be true, but then again, it matches some of my experiences with calling various customer service centers....

A lady died this past January, and Citibank billed her for February and March for their annual service charges on her credit card, and added late fees and interest on the monthly charge. The balance had been $0.00 when she died, but now somewhere around $60.00. A family member placed a call to Citibank.

Here is the exchange:

Family Member: 'I am calling to tell you she died back in January.'

Citibank: 'The account was never closed and the late fees and charges still apply.'

Family Member: 'Maybe, you should turn it over to collections.'

Citibank: 'Since it is two months past due, it already has been.'

Family Member: So, what will they do when they find out she is dead?'

Citibank: 'Either report her account to frauds division or report her to the credit bureau, maybe both!'

Family Member: 'Do you think God will be mad at her?'

Citibank: 'Excuse me?'

Family Member: 'Did you just get what I was telling you - the part about her being dead?'

Citibank: 'Sir, you'll have to speak to my supervisor.'

Supervisor gets on the phone:

Family Member: 'I'm calling to tell you, she died back in January with a $0 balance.'

Citibank: 'The account was never closed and late fees and charges still apply.'

Family Member: 'You mean you want to collect from her estate?'

Citibank: (Stammer) 'Are you her lawyer?'

Family Member: 'No, I'm her great nephew.' (Lawyer info was given)

Citibank: ' Could you fax us a certificate of death?'

Family Member: 'Sure.' (Fax number was given )

After they get the fax:

Citibank: 'Our system just isn't setup for death. I don't know what more I can do to help.'

Family Member: 'Well, if you figure it out, great! If not , you could just keep billing her. She won't care.'

Citibank: 'Well, the late fees and charges do still apply.' (What is wrong with these people?!?)

Family Member: ' Would you like her new billing address?'

Citibank: 'That might help...'

Family Member: ' Odessa Memorial Cemetery , Highway 129, Plot Number 69.'

Citibank: 'Sir, that's a cemetery !'

Family Member: 'And what do you do with dead people on your planet???

Super Bowl Buffet in Fort Worth

It has now been a month since I escaped the verbal and physical abuse Tacoma inflicted on me. And the conspiratorial attempts to fatten me up.

A month of being back where everyone treats me nice has restored me to my former pre-traumatic stress syndrome state of mind. As in I'm happy again.

Just in the last week I've had a nice lady from Dallas tell me that talking to me lifted a burden from her shoulders and made her feel so good she had to call her mom to tell her. In the past month I've been asked if I'm a newspaper columnist and have twice been told I should write a book. I've been told I've lifted the spirits of an Ike survivor. I've been told I'm too easy-going. These are all things I would never hear in Washington. I know really nice people in Texas.

But then, today, a bad thing happened here in Fort Worth. Someone here must be thinking I'm too skinny, just like those who tried to fatten me up in Tacoma. I was taken to the Super Bowl Buffet against my will. This is across the street from where I live. You don't drive there unless it is too hot or too cold or raining or snowing or ice storming. Today was none of those, so we walked.

The oddly named Super Bowl Buffet used to have an even odder name when it was called Super Asia Buffet. It's the best Chinese Buffet I've been too. I've been to a lot of them. Real good sushi too. I ate only the healthy stuff and avoided the deep-fried shrimp and other goodies of a like sort. I'll no more gain weight from this lunch indulgence than any of the attempts to pork me up when I was up north.

Tomorrow I'm going to Sprouts. That's my favorite grocery store. Tacoma needs a Sprouts Farmers Market. There really are no good grocery stores in Tacoma. There is one the Tacoma locals think is good, called Metro, and it is just awful. Way over priced for bad looking produce in a dinky store with narrow aisles that reminded me of Wal-Mart Neighborhood Market. I shouldn't say there are no good grocery stores in Tacoma, there is a Trader Joe's. But I didn't get to go there. They do have a Top Foods which is like a downscale version of its parent Haggens store, but it's no Haggens. Tacoma needs a Haggens. And a couple Super Wal-Marts.

The State Fair of Texas and the Ku Klux Klan

The State Fair of Texas will be starting up in about a week, running from September 26 through October 19. It's in Dallas at what is called Fair Park. That's where the Cotton Bowl is. Football gets played in the Cotton Bowl. During the Fair, Texas plays Oklahoma in what always seems to be a big deal here.

The Cotton Bowl has had millions of bucks spent on it to renovate it from its run-down state to a new shiny state of near perfection with more seats, more restrooms, more room and more places to eat.

If you've never been to the State Fair of Texas you should make the effort. It'll be good for you to do something non-sedentary for one day of the year. Wandering around the Texas State Fair can be exhausting. Wear comfortable shoes.

Below is a video about a couple who did research into the history of the State Fair of Texas. Interesting info about Elvis that I pretty much already knew, but I did not know that way back in a different era the State Fair of Texas had a Ku Klux Klan Day......

An American Carol & An Innocent Man in Texas

A Texas woman is trying to exonerate a dead man she wrongly accused of raping her 23 years ago. The innocent man died in prison from complications of asthma that his family claimed were not properly treated. DNA testing proved the dead man did not commit the crime. Another inmate confessed.

Meanwhile there will soon be a movie in theaters called An American Carol. In this movie ghosts of America's past give Michael Moore a tour of what the world would look like today if America never went to war. The ghosts do this because they are annoyed that Michael Moore and moveon.org are trying to ban the 4th of July.

George Washington, George Patton, John F. Kennedy and others give Michael Moore his tour.

To his horror, Michael Moore learns that if the Union had not decided to preserve itself that he would be a modern day slave owner with a huge plantation. I don't know, but I'm guessing in this movie a lot of the world is controlled by Nazis. Or maybe the Soviets defeated the Nazis without our help, which would make a lot of the world controlled by the Soviets.

Sounds like an interesting movie. That David Zucker guy who made the Airplane and Naked Gun movies is the maker of An American Carol. I'm sure much hilarity is involved.

They are still trying to decide whether or not to include the current ending, which has Gary Coleman washing cars and passing a cleaning rag off to someone off screen who he calls Barack.

Below is a movie trailer for An American Carol....

Natural Gas Drilling Polluting Water

Incoming info from Don Young pointing me to an interesting article in the Christian Science Monitor regarding the damage being done to the nation's water supply by the hydraulic fracturing process that is used to release natural gas from stubborn hard shale.

The area around Fort Worth has been the practice ground for this new drilling procedure for about 5 years. It is now spreading all over the country.

Read the whole article here.

Below is a scary excerpt about what happened to one Texas family....

The nation’s shale-gas guinea pigs reside in 15 counties around Fort Worth, where shale-gas extraction using hydraulic fracturing has been validated in recent years. The results have brought wealth to some, but infuriated others.

Charlotte Harris and her husband signed a mineral lease last year. But she’s upset now. She sharply recalls a day last November when her drinking-water well died and a new gas well 100 yards from her Grandview, Texas, home was born.

She washed dishes that morning as usual, she says in an phone interview. But after a shower, her skin itched terribly and she realized the water had a sulfurous odor. Later that day, without warning, her toilet erupted. Water shot out of it “like Niagara Falls.”

About that time, she learned, powerful pump trucks at the nearby well site were sending pulses of water mixed with sand and chemicals thousands of feet down into solid shale to fracture it to increase the flow of gas. She and her husband now believe some of that fluid escaped under pressure much nearer the surface.

After the Harrises complained, the drilling company had the water tested but found no problem. Harris’s next-door neighbor, John Sayers, had a lab test his well water. The lab found toluene, a chemical used in explosives, paint stripper – and often in drilling fluids.

Almost a year later, the Harris family well water, once clear and sweet, is murky and foul-smelling. Ms. Harris’s husband, Stevan, trucks in about 1,500 gallons twice a week, at 15 cents a gallon.

“We’re not using that [well] water for anything at all,” Mr. Sayers says. “I was told not to drink, wash, or anything. Not even water my grass with it.”

Charter Communication Internet Woes

Yesterday afternoon my Internet connection ceased being connected. I dread calling Charter Communication and eventually being connected to someone in the Philippines calling himself Joe and not speaking English very well.

Well. Yesterday's call brought fresh aggravation. After I'd entered all the identifying info I was told there were outages all over Alabama. I'm not in Alabama.

Then I was told to hold for very important information about my area. A woman's voice came on telling me the date and time. And then told me due to Hurricane Ike my area was experiencing widespread outages. She then gave me a number to call to find out when service would be restored in my area.

Well, I'm not in the Hurricane Ike damage area. So, I hit a button. A voice told me I really needed to listen to the message. And then it played again. I went through 3 rounds of this when another voice asked if I'd like to speak to a customer support technician. Hit '1' if you do.

I hit '1'. Almost instantly a woman answered speaking perfect English. She asked identifying info including the last 4 digits of my SS #. Then she told me there were problems in West Fort Worth. I'm in East Fort Worth I told her.

She then told me she saw no problem with my connection. She then wanted me to reset the modem. Had already done that. About then the connection started working again.

Before I got off the phone I asked if she was in the Philippines. No, she said she was in Florida. She said people are often surprised not to get a Philipino.

So, this morning the Internet went out again. I dreaded it, but I called again. This time I didn't get the Hurricane Ike message. Instantly got a real person on the line. An American. Is Charter improving customer service? So, someone is supposed to arrive to fix the connection between 2 and 4 this afternoon, calling an hour before to confirm.

We'll see how that goes. In the meantime, I'm using Miss Puerto Rico's Internet Connection. It's DSL and I don't believe it has ever been down.

John McCain's Phone Call To Sarah Palin

Please excuse John McCain's inexcusable profanity in his phone call to Sarah Palin asking her to be his Vice-President.....

WaMu And Other Economic Disasters

Washington Mutual pulled out of Krogers, here in Texas, a couple years ago. This made the closest WaMu to me about 9 miles. The 18 mile roundtrip to deposit a check costs a gallon of gas. Something seems wrong about that.

I'd been noticing a new construction near my friendly neighborhood Super Wal-Mart. Last week it identified itself. It's a new WaMu branch. This is a good thing.

But, WaMu seems to be in trouble. When they pulled out of Krogers they were in trouble. And now those troubles have gotten way worse. So, I'll just assume this new WaMu won't get finished, so as to avoid anymore disappointment in my disappointment heavy life.

All these bad things happening to famous names like Merrill Lynch makes me nervous. I fear we are heading towards some bad bad times.

John McCain wants to assemble a commission to look into these vexing economic issues. Wasn't it a commission that recommended all that de-regulating that's led to the desperate situation we're now in? Wasn't John McCain part of a long ago bank type scandal? Something called the Keating Five. Or Fifteen. It's so hard to remember. I guess I could look it up.

At least Barack Obama seems to understand we've got some serious problems. Though I don't hear a lot of re-assuring solutions. Probably because there aren't any.