Okay, I mentioned in a previous blogging that I guess this is going to be Politically Incorrect Durango Texas Day due to me being awakened at 3am by UGLY FAT WOMEN trying to eat me.
So, the Attack of the UGLY FAT WOMEN led me to a website called No Marriage.
One of the pages on the No Marriage website is titled "Majority of American Women have Histrionic and Narcissistic disorders".
To me the behaviors described fit my experiences with Only Child Syndrome. But the No Marriage website leads me to realize I was also dealing with a Histrionic and Narcissistic Disorder, masked, poorly, by powerful psychotropic medications.
What follows is copied and pasted from the No Marriage website...
We are talking really serious stuff here. Most American women have at least two serious personality disorders. And having personality disorder(s) and being a good wife are mutually exclusive things. That means American women are completely unfit to be wives and mothers.
Histrionic disorder: manipulative, attention seekers, dominate the conversation, use grandiose language, seek constant praise, dress provocatively, exaggerate illnesses in order to gain attention, exaggerate friendships and relationships, believe that everyone loves them.
Narcissistic disorder: self-centered, seek attention and praise, take advantage of people, fantasize about success and power, expect favorable treatment, exaggerate achievements, have difficulty maintaining long-lasting relationships, expect others to recognize them as being superior.
Many American women also have Dependent, Obsessive-Compulsive, and Borderline disorders.
Think about the women you dated and see how many of them had the combination of: mental/biological/genetic problems (defects), tried to kill herself, depressed, mood-swings, arthritic, psychotic breakdowns, unhappy, nutcase, every condition known to man, deranged attention whore.
The only reality which exists for the narcissist is their own, and even when they are repeatedly shown to be wrong or misinformed about something, they will maintain their original stance, despite all contradictory evidence, no matter how compelling.
They have no interest in understanding reality, or others. Instead, they project themselves onto the other: - in lieu of internalising the other, they externalise and generalise themselves.
It has often been noted here that it is difficult to tell whether the narcissist is stupider or madder, as there are such strong elements of both in their disposition.
And the madness is real. The narcissist will twist and distort reality to infinity in order to place themselves at the earth's center. No amount of objectivity shall be allowed to interfere with this. This is their prime objective, and they will talk any amount of nonsense to achieve it. They don't care. There is only them, and their prison is a familiar, comfortable zone. It has walls padded with velvety self-deception.
So the narcissist is not just weak, stupid, vain and unrealistic. Because if their condition was just a composite of common character flaws, they could change, grow out of it, be reasoned with. Nor is it just an act of will, for when they are shown that their interests are not best served by unflinching selfishness, there is no change.
Narcissism is a mental illness - a psychological disease which shares many characteristics with schizophrenia. It is a 'self' trapped in and constructed solely by infinite self-reflections reiterating to infinity.
It cannot change. It cannot be treated. When the window of internalised other closed in childhood, it jammed shut - never to let light in again.
NoMarriage.com manual has a comprehensive test to help you determine if your girlfriend will make a good wife. Personality disorders is one of the 10 things that make women to be unfit wives and mothers.
So I heard this theory once that all women are born with a crazy seed. Some of these seeds grow healthier than others. Some women grow nice little shrubs and they are able to keep them trimmed and neat. Others let their crazy seeds grow out of control.
ReplyDeleteWeb sites like the one you quoted are throwing a nice bit of miracle grow and water on all the seeds out there.
In fact, by quoting things like this on your popular blog you are also doing a swell job of fertilizing.
I find this crazy seed theory very amusing. I don't worry too much that this blog is gonna do much crazy sprouting. It's my TV Blog that's the popular one. Maybe I should do some crazy seed fertilizing on that one...
ReplyDeleteDurango Darling...you really need to stop eating food with MSG so you don't have these terrible dreams.
ReplyDeleteAs to histrionic and narcissitic Disorders...everyone has a diagnosis.
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